Flywheel Questions with pics! PLEASE HELP!

[SpicyOrange]

Ok so I've been chasing this damn vibration for a year now. Finally decided to rip the tranny back out after the balance shaft elimination didn't fix anything. So I get the tranny out and rip the flywheel off, and I notice som marks on the side of it (1st pic). Then I notice its making marks in my FWD trannys bellhousing (2nd pic). weird I think, since I think this is the flywheel that I bolted from the engine and brought to the machine shop. Then I compare the FWD 7 bolt Fidanza Flywheel I just picked up from V8Killa, and I notice the weights or mounting surfaces stick out to the edge of the ring gear on my steel flywheel (3rd Pic) and on the aluminum one they don't go to the edge (4th pic). I'm pretty sure the aluminum one won't rub. But whats hapening here? did the shop give me back the wrong flywheel? Is something in the motor fucked? Someone please help, I'm sorry for the shitty pics, I only had my phone with me.

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