Thanks guys, sorry about the woe is me post but after this weekend and a few insurance calls it hit me at once.
The car was appraised at over $8500 bedore the hit the damage looks to be around ~$4000. Car will be fixed or totalled. I'm fine, I didn't get hurt too bad in the accident, just minor back pains and spasms.
My Uncle went the way he wanted, at home, in bed, surrounded by family members. My Grandma is having a real hardtime, so is my Mom. I am glad I was able to spend a lot of time with my Uncle over the past few months, he was a very proud and storng man, he will be missed.
If there is a bright side its that my Uncle is at peace and no longer battling a terrible cancer. I will receive the value of my car, which I was trying to sell, or it will be fixed with a new paint job.
Things will work out. We are ready to put an offer down on a house and Melissa and I are getting married in less than three weeks!
Jim