Possibly getting out of dsms.

[SlowWhite]

Honestly, just get out of cars.

How is the relationship between you and her? I'll can tell you first hand anything the coarts see as hobby, or extra they'll say if you can spend it on that then you can spend it on your kid. Jenny tried that shit with me, and they checked everything, I had to put together a list of Bills going 6 months back to prove I didn't have any extra money that could go to her. They asked for bank statements, house payments, car insurance, etc. Anything above and beyond can go to her for child support (and yes they said cable and internet were not necessary...bastards! don't know what I'd do with out internet)

But on the possitive note congrats man. Wish you the best of luck, and all I can say is just be there for her, she's going to have a ton of emotions going on that we couldn't never understand, and support not matter what the decision is, is key to keeping the relationship going in a positive manner. (kind of funny actually been talking about this with 3 different women about this since moving down here)