*RANT* A bad couple of weeks!

[JET]

I feel your pain on the girlfriend situation. I have been in a nearly identical one. She was a bitch and it was a long distance one. I can also put up with a ton of shit. I put up with it for a long distance thing, and we ended up moving in together. That proved to be too much. You just have to ask yourself, do you want to put up with that everyday for the rest of your life? I don't think you do. There is someone else out there who will treat you nice.

Mine was not quite as bitchy as yours sounds, but when mine was the worst is when she was fooling around with other guys, which I found out later. She would feel guilty and bitch at me about it. It is hard to break up with someone you have grown that attached to, but you will be wondering why you didn't do it sooner a month down there road. I mean she wouldn't offer support when you found out your mom may be paralyzed for the rest of her life? Screw her. She doesn't really care about you, she is just using you.

Sorry for being so blunt, I just don't want you to waste 3 1/2 years like I did before I finally saw the big picture.

That sucks about your mom. Luckily she has some feeling, so she will probably recover, but it will be a long road.