Spendy for such high miles but I found a couple base crvs with low miles for 15ish. I suppose you already have a truck for hauling, so does she need a suv? Maybe look at a impreza like AJ bought if you want awd, or just get a newer accord and some snow tires.
Forester seems like a good deal:
http://www.cars.com/vehicledetail/de...4619/overview/
Loaded CRV
http://www.cars.com/vehicledetail/de...1985/overview/
Cant go wrong with a yota either
http://www.cars.com/vehicledetail/de...1294/overview/