When Some People are Pieces of Shit

At-Least-It's-An-Evo · 12-12-2006

**WHEN SOME PEOPLE ARE PIECES OF SHIT** it should say.

See, well sometimes there are people who are pieces of shit and there isn't much you can do about it.

What if you asked for something back and just got ignored. This wouldn't be the first time. You get shit for it and get questioned for it or even get hated for it. Yes, this is a supposed "friend". You get your shit back, but only because you went to extensive measures for it. Well it has happened again, except this time, the person is no longer associated or in contact with you. All you want is your shit back and yet you don't even get enough respect to get it back without asking more than twice. Is a third time necessary? I shouldn't think so. Anyone would common courtesy or common sense would just give it back no questions asked.

What happens when someone realizes how you are and starts asking and knowingly asks you to go half on something but yet you never see your half? You get gypped every time thinking you might actually have something saved for you but every time, you get nothing. You get asked again, and yet still nothing.

What happens when you front someone some cash for something expecting to be paid back abruptly and get nothing for months or nothing for forever or never in full? You get the fucking shaft once again.

What happens when you do this and it seems to be a daily or weekly or yearly routine? Does it mean that you're the fucking dumbass willing to believe in certain people but only get shit on? I believe so.

What happens when this happens so many times in a very short period of time-sayyy a month or a few months? You start telling certain people to fuck off and for some reason they don't understand why.

Well now you understand why.

**Halon** · 12-12-2006

So the question of the day is... Who screwed you?

At-Least-It's-An-Evo · 12-12-2006

Quote:

Originally Posted by ju-on

So the question of the day is... Who screwed you?

There would be more than one.

**Halon** · 12-12-2006

Damn, well hopefully karma does well then. Sorry to hear.

HiImBrian · 12-12-2006

Good luck gettin your shit back.

FattyBoomBatty · 12-12-2006

I have a friend like that. I've had some serious problems with him and a couple times had arguments that ended up in silence between us for months at a time, I think the worst was like 6 months. It was over stupid shit too.

Anyway, We both learned the lesson: don't borrow shit from each other, don't lend it, and DEFINATELY don't work together. It only causes problems. I am now skeptical of any job that I work at with good friends because i've done that too many times to not know it doesn't work.

So, good luck getting your stuff back, and the answer is simple. DON'T lend anything to them, you can still be friends, but learn how to say no.

edit: BTW, we are good buddies now because we found every possible reason to hate each other and completely avoid those things.

**Kracka** · 12-12-2006

Sucks Cher! Been there done that though, it really sucks getting burned by a supposed friend, especially when they lie over and over again to you.

AwdGSX13 · 12-12-2006

Quote:

Originally Posted by FattyBoomBatty

I have a friend like that. I've had some serious problems with him and a couple times had arguments that ended up in silence between us for months at a time, I think the worst was like 6 months. It was over stupid shit too.

Anyway, We both learned the lesson: don't borrow shit from each other, don't lend it, and DEFINATELY don't work together. It only causes problems. I am now skeptical of any job that I work at with good friends because i've done that too many times to not know it doesn't work.

So, good luck getting your stuff back, and the answer is simple. DON'T lend anything to them, you can still be friends, but learn how to say no.

edit: BTW, we are good buddies now because we found every possible reason to hate each other and completely avoid those things.

this is very true, i think everyone has had an occurance such as this at least once... i know i have plenty of times. Best of luck to ya

Enes · 12-12-2006

ouch sorry

**JET** · 12-12-2006

Yeah, I have been there too. One of my best friends still owes me a chunk of change, but has turned around and realizes his mistake now. I always used to lend friends anything, but as you get older you get a little wiser. I have learned to say no, but it took the same type of experiences.

Good luck getting everything back and don't be afraid to confront them. Part of it may just be a misunderstanding.

slowbubblecar · 12-12-2006

That happened to me with Ryan (MR RACED) who now has the vette. When he had his evo, he needed new tires and I just bought some from another guy on the board with 500 miles of them. I dropped them off with a wheel that one was on at QPR and never got the money or my rim back. He made excuses about being low on money when his T-case broke later but even after that was fixed he would tell me I could get the money next week and wouldn't reply. Dumbricer on here asked him about it and he said he didn't know anything about it so I might have to make a trip to his work sometime.

**scheides** · 12-12-2006

Cher, relax man. I'll give you're freaking gay porn collection back ok? I'm just not *done* with it yet!

At-Least-It's-An-Evo · 12-13-2006

No misunderstanding, some people are just pieces of shit and karma will and is kicking their asses. I'm not saying I'm perfect in anyway but I will admit to my mistakes.

Enes · 12-13-2006

lol yeah speaking of that... do you remember anything for me?

TalonFiero · 12-13-2006

Cher, sorry to hear you are still having the same issues with certain people (I think I know two of the certain someones for sure).

This topic reminded me that someone on this forum still owes me $30 bucks for a cd player and I owe Matt D a 2g mas or some money or quite a few drinks at the bar!

tim · 12-13-2006

Quote:

Originally Posted by slowbubblecar

That happened to me with Ryan (MR RACED) who now has the vette. When he had his evo, he needed new tires and I just bought some from another guy on the board with 500 miles of them. I dropped them off with a wheel that one was on at QPR and never got the money or my rim back. He made excuses about being low on money when his T-case broke later but even after that was fixed he would tell me I could get the money next week and wouldn't reply. Dumbricer on here asked him about it and he said he didn't know anything about it so I might have to make a trip to his work sometime.

He has no excuse for paying you back. He is definitely well off enough to pay you back. Dont let it go! (he posts on TCS quite a bit if you need to PM him) Hell, I will for ya if need be.

Sucks to hear Cher. Hope everything works out.

Speedfreak · 12-13-2006

Reminds me of the last 5+ years of my life.

sleepydsm · 12-13-2006

I think I'd rather hurt some feelings, be a dick, and just not be kind to anyone. Always exceptions though.

Thor06 · 12-13-2006

Some people just are douche bags. Dealing with a shady person or two for a car part and the last ~2.5 years of the time I worked at McDonalds left me with not much if any trust or faith in humanity. I would pay your buddy a visit make it clear you are serious. What comes around goes around, someday the world's ass cracks will get what they got coming.

At-Least-It's-An-Evo · 12-22-2006

I have made it very clear I am serious. I want NOTHING to do with him other than the mere fact of getting MY shit back in my possession. I tried one last time unsuccessfully and even tried to start it off by not being an asshole-then out came asshole mode. Now there's no holding back. I will of course update this as it builds with more detail depending on how the other party wants to deal with it.