Rich and sad, or poor and happy?

dumb_ricer · 11-17-2005

If you had to choose between one of the two, which would you choose?

For comparisons sake lets say this in each situation:

A. (Rich and Sad) You are 30 years old, had married a woman you were very very deeply in love with, and she decided to cheat on you, tell you that she never loved you, and blew her brains out right in front of you. You also just lost your mother and father in a car accident, and you have no grandparents, brothers or sisters, and you are unattractive. When your wife died, you inherited a sum of money so large that you could never fully use all of it.

B. (Poor and Happy) Your income is limited to 7500 dollars a year, but you have to work full time and overtime to achieve that amount of money, but you get to choose what you want to do for a living and have generally good luck with things.

One side of me would rather be sad and rich as hell, (greedy side) but the other side says poor and happy would be overall better.

x-pride · 11-17-2005

Um, you have to much time on your hand.

**Kracka** · 11-17-2005

Damn dude thats tough. I guess assuming I could do ANYTHING I wanted for work, I'd go poor and happy. The grass will always be greener on the other side though; when you're one, you'll wish to be the other.

awd-drifter · 11-17-2005

option B, option A is all suffering...thats a good one though

**JET** · 11-17-2005

Definately poor with good luck. Start playing the lottery and you are set

Even if you were poor you could go back to school and improve your lifestyle. Now if you were stuck at that level for life, it would be more difficult.

The wife thing isn't super bad. I would be so pissed at her that it wouldn't be super horrible. The parent thing would suck pretty bad, as would not having really any other relatives.

The other side of the coin, it is not possible to be happy with $7,500/yr. You cannot possibly live on that, so you won't be happy. With $12k/yr you could possibly scrape by without a car and still be in a crappy apartment.

1slowdsm · 11-17-2005

Oooh. That's a tough one. But I like Jet's idea about improving your lifestyle in option B. Option A would just SUCK.

Pushit2.0 · 11-17-2005

Poverty is around 12,000 a year? I would stay happy and push myself to make more than 7500 in one year.

~John

AJ · 11-17-2005

I made WAY less than $7500 not to long ago doing what I choose to do... Wasn't all that great, money doesn't make you happy, unless you don't have it. Nearly destroyed the greatest thing I ever had.... it was no different than picking option A.

Fuck'em both.

**Kracka** · 11-17-2005

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Originally Posted by Pushit2.0

Poverty is around 12,000 a year? I would stay happy and push myself to make more than 7500 in one year.

~John

As a point of interest, an elementary school teacher's salary is below the poverty line if he/she is a single parent raising the kid(s).

**JET** · 11-17-2005

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Originally Posted by S2kracka

As a point of interest, an elementary school teacher's salary is below the poverty line if he/she is a single parent raising the kid(s).

Add in the child support though. I do agree that teachers are under paid, but there isn't a shortage of them, so the wages won't go up.

**Kracka** · 11-17-2005

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Originally Posted by JET

Add in the child support though. I do agree that teachers are under paid, but there isn't a shortage of them, so the wages won't go up.

Child support is not always available. The people who need it the most are generally the ones who aren't getting it. I too agree that teachers are underpaid, but for the most part at least you know they are teaching out of the love for it rather than the money.

Outlaw1 · 11-17-2005

When I built cars for a living that was the same boat I was in. Some years I made a bunch. Some years I barely scraped by. I've been broke AND unhappy. Neither are worth a crap.

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Originally Posted by DSMStyle

I made WAY less than $7500 not to long ago doing what I choose to do... Wasn't all that great, money doesn't make you happy, unless you don't have it. Nearly destroyed the greatest thing I ever had.... it was no different than picking option A.

Fuck'em both.

cudvig · 11-17-2005

Yeah stop making us think about this!

you have too much time on your hands.

-Colin

niterydr · 11-17-2005

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Originally Posted by DSMStyle

I made WAY less than $7500 not to long ago doing what I choose to do... Wasn't all that great, money doesn't make you happy, unless you don't have it. Nearly destroyed the greatest thing I ever had.... it was no different than picking option A.

Fuck'em both.

No shit! Amen to that brother.
I'd choose option B.

x-pride · 11-17-2005

Can't pick either one because I own a DSM. I am always broke from fixing it. Just joking. I would rather be poor and happy. Happiness can only be earned and it last an eternity. With money you will only be happy when it is there when it runs out life sucks. Look at pay day. Your happy to see your check but once it gone sadness roles in.

**JET** · 11-17-2005

I thought of a better option for B. What if you were mentally insane and stuck in an insane assylum, but were perfectly happy with life? Everything was a game and you had tons of imaginary friends, but you thought they were real.

Yeah, I have too much time on my hands too. I have been home sick since Tues.

TurboDomestics · 11-17-2005

Family and friends make me happy, and i couldnt be very happy with out them. I'd choose Option B. Money bever made me happy, nor did i ever get any sence of accomplishment with money. Fuck $$!!!

Black97civic · 11-18-2005

Eh, I would take poor and happy. I get to pick what I do for a living, so I would be the poorest porn star ever.

$7500 and millions of dollars worth of poon.