That's one of the most important areas of the game. If you can't cuddle after the act, you won't be able successful with a second booty call to the involved party. Normally I just fall asleep with the arm draped over the top, which is adequate enough to get the job done. I suggest purchasing a hard copy of the book linked below to help you with your endeavers.
*Do not click on this if you're at work. Might not be work safe*
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