What would you do in this situation

[AJ]

Couple things to point out here, and I'll be quick about it.

1. You are both way too young, there is already a mix of hatefull parents, and there is already a run in with the law. Wake up, and take the next few years to live a little (with or without her).

2. You're asking a car site where we only know you through 10 posts (your current count as of my post). Seriously, if you have to come here and get advice like this you have no clue. Sorry, but it's true.

[JamieSophia14]

I did not come here for the advice, not did I ask for advice. I was jsut curious what others would do if they were in a situation like this. I already know what path I'm takign reguardless of what anyone here says.

[AJ]

You're title asked for advice, and if you don't understand that concept, you have a whole new problem to deal with. And if you already know what you are doing, why ask?

[JamieSophia14]

No my title does not say I need advice. My title says would would you DO in this situation NOT I need an opinion what to do, your reading it the wrong way and thats fine.

[JET]

I was in a similar situation at close to your age too. I am guessing her parents found out you were having sex? That is what happened to me. Don't push things, sit back and take it slow. If she really is the one for you, then your love will last forever and you have plenty of time.

[MitsuChick]

OK! So my friend and I convened in my small dorm room (dog like kennel of a room) and this is what we came up with:

It is foolish to break a restraining order especially when you are 18 and it will be on your record forever. Don’t ever fuck with the law, unless you are street racing hehe. You will do her no good if you are in jail (I don’t really know what happens if you violate an order, but any ways) and it will just give her parents another excuse for her not to be with you. Respect her parents wishes, even though they seem a little messed up right now, don’t be ageist.

Don’t rush into marriage. I’m 18 and am in a committed relationship, but its foolish to get married so young. I see some disillusionment in you because you want to get married so young. If you are truly in love timing does not matter. Wait until you are independent, have move out and live by yourself for a few year and have finished school and have a secured job. You need to experience adulthood by yourself before sharing your life with others. This is only to protect you from simply a burn out form a lack of coping skills. Marriage requires a level of maturity that will only come with time, wisdom, patience and evaluation of oneself.

Another thing is no matter how much you don’t want it to; your relationship is going to change from this situation. Are you still dealing with infatuation? You need to mature your relationship to a committed relationship, consummate love, realistic ambitions and a pragmatic relationship. Her parents are judging your relationship as naive behavior. This is not intended to be demonstrative towards you, but it is simply the stage you are in.

Take the last 38 days to reflective upon yourself and your girlfriend and where your love comes from; why you love her. It is wise to understand superficiality in your relationship and understand that this is only because of your age.

I am not saying that you can not continue your relationship with her, I hope for the best for both of you as individuals. I am offering you the advice of my friend and I so you can acquire another point of view from two fucking amazing, colligate young woman (one of whom drives a freakin’ hot car hehe).

But really think about it…


(Sorry for the weird words but this is from psychology and nursing major point of view…)

[A//// Guy]

Pretty sure Jet hit it on the head, she probably told her parents you were "that" serious and they didnt so much like that.

[Kracka]

Forget about it. You're too young to be deciding who you're going to marry. Want me to tell you what happened of all the people I know who got married shortly after high school? No, you don't.

Bingo.

[92EvilTalon]

The path you take should be waiting it out alittle longer. I agree waiting until she is in her mid twentys. I am not saying you should not talk to her. Nor ignore her after she turns 18. I am all for staying together. But what I am saying is don't run off and get marryed at a short age. Oh and make sure you have a good job before you tie the knot. But I think you already thinking of that. Good luck with it all. And don't screw it up.

[Swifty1638]

I've been in a similar situation. Perhaps some of you (hughes) remember Kristina, my ex? Her rents hated me, for no apparent reason. After a few months, I said fuck it. You really aren't worth the trouble, headaches, or pain. I can say I think i've moved on to a better place in life now, and am happy. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Who knows, perhaps you'll land a hot chick with rich rents, and she's into cars too!

-A. Swift