AAAHHHH!!! I got good news today, I'm not getting laid off (at least until the economy gets even worse).
But I am now about ready to go crazy. I found these:
Enkei RPF1 17x10 aprrox
17lbs for $1050 shipped.
The only problem is that I can't confirm that they will clear my calipers with the size/offset I want. There are people running them on the 3S and EVO. My specs should make for as much clearnace as possible, but...
I found the FNO1R-C's for $810 shipped...
Indecision!