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Originally Posted by JET
She doesn't really care about you, she is just using you.
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Affirmative, JET.
When you're young it's HARD to let go of someone. Your mind gets all muddy with "love" pretty easy. In the end, you'll find the love you felt was more of a wanting to be needed by someone on your own part and the good feeling you get when you do something for her. Kinda makes you feel like you have a purpose. When everything is over, you'll find yourself asking, "What was it that I loved about her so much?". She probably isn't interested in any of the same things you are. When you start out in a relationship the things that you like are interesting to her. Later down the road, things that you like become "stupid" to her because you actually enjoy them. A relationship shouldn't be so hard. Either things work smoothly, or they don't. There should be an obvious common goal in a relationship. Happiness for BOTH.
But on the other hand...Speaking from personal experience, I think all women are sluts. So what do I know?
Seriously though, sorry to hear about your mom. Talking about traumatic experiences, last March I had several family members that were involved in a large refinary explosion in Texas City. My brother's father-in-law was killed, my sister-in-law has 3rd degree burns on 60% of her body. My brother was in the middle of all the smoke and fire trying to dig them all out of the rubble. A couple weeks before this, my girlfriend's grandma died. The week after the explosion my girlfriend decided to leave me and take our children (two girls and a six month old boy) with her, and somehow blamed everything on me. Talk about bummed.