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42, with a 12 inch cock the ladies fall in place for.

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Why not? That's the smart thing to do be doing in high school haha.

Matt D. has given great advice and I couldn't say it any better myself. I'm 20 years old and I've had many friends (and even myself in high school) that were in the same position as you and now that I'm older (3-4 years even) I know that what Matt has said is right on the money. Listen to the man as you will be most likely kicking yourself down the road for not.

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Don't ask for advice from strangers if you don't want to hear the truth (or at least their opinion).

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Ditch the bitch.....Let's go racing!!!!!!!

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Didn't mean it the way it may have sounded. Say you have a daughter, and she meets some random guy who tells her what she wants to hear just to fuck her then leaves. Or would you want a guy thats committed to atleast trying to be with her and not jsut using her for her tight pussy. I know as a father option number two sounds better.

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agreed. can i have her number?











what? too soon?

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Guys I think this is kinda a touchy subject and probably shouldn't even have been posted. I say leave the poor guy alone to make his own decisions. If he wants to shut out all his other friends for one girl then let him do it. But Jamie or Sophia or whatever the fuck your name is, you better hope to god that something doesn't happen cus if you end up losing this chick you will have no zero zip zaddo nada none friends. I've lost a few friends to girls, wanna know what happens? They break up and we have all moved on without him/her. Catch my drift home fry?

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I miss high school.

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98GSX is right... dont shut out your friends for a girl, lesson learned here too.

Hahahaha @ kracka!

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Skeet Skeet?

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I hope not for his sake, otherwise he might get a little "bonus" to take home with him in 38 days.

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I'vemade it a point to stay in contact with my freinds. I hang out with a freind every day or night, I haven't put my life on hold for this girl. I am freinds with everyone but only hold 5 or 6 true close freinds near me, we get together and grab some food or work on a car or truck every night. Honestly if it weren't for my freinds i'd probably be dead right now, so I owe them a lot.

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Well then it sounds like you got everything under control.

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Replacement for highschool? The Philipines!

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high school < Asia < Asian high school

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Yeah every tuesday night we go grab pizza, every friday night is poker night, saturday night we hit the mall or a carshow and then we usually just ride aorund or work on our project cars on the other nights, I've been able to keep myself pretty busy which has gave me the ability to keep my head on straight.

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http://www.asianeuro.com/default.cfm Fall back plan!

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I now totally back up my first post. Your immaturity shows in all of your posts, not to be a bitch or any thing. I know its hard for you right now but you need to be real. Are you a Sr in highschool and she is a Jr? If so, do you plan to leave for college next year or stay in town just for her? Is she going to follow you out to whatever school you are going to? These are all just things to think about. Stick out the last few week, but really think about things.

Also i dont think restraining orders are just passes out for "emotional attachments" there had to have been more reasons for this that you are not sharing...

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Relationships can be one of the hardest things to possibly do...EVER. Thats why many people choose to stay out of them, but if you both say your commited to eachother. What are you worried about Your're 18 and if you plan on marrying her you'll have the chance to stay with her for another 60+ years. So whats 105 days in the scope of things?
What exactly were you hoping to hear when you posted this, when you already know your not going to leave her she's not leaving you. Your mind is obviously set on staying with her not seeing someone is really difficult. I can understand your frustration I dated a girl for 3 months and she went three states away for the summer and didn't see her until 2 days before school started up again. So I know what its like to not see someone for 90 days.

As hard as it is to hear take your time slow down step back take it easy, and actually put it into play and make it work in your life... its something you have to do and will only make you both stronger in the long run. Best of luck bud.

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It's not even a real restraining order, hence why it was only 3 months, usually the minimum for a restraining order is 2 years in maine and it's called "emotional distress"

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well my friend finally got out of a 3 year relationship this past month... kind of simialer to your situation and I kept telling him to just bail (she was also cheating) but he loved her and stayed in town and went to alex tech instead of going to the u of m like his original plans. not saying that is bad but it was a waste of a year for him, and it made me listen to him mope his ass off countless night and now he smokes because of her.... just think about it and try not to even think about her for the rest of the time even though it will be really hard, and if it works out great. Oh yeah, women come and go... friends not so easily... it was me and one other person that really hung out with him towards the end of the relationship because everyone else bailed.... and my "older" brother (neighbor since 5 2 years older) did the same thing and when he was done he had even forgot some peoples names.... just an fyi from another 18 year old

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Ha, and you would know they are normally 2 years why?

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because I researched the website, the pamplet stated that, the judge said she was knocking it down from 2 years to 3 months, and my school officer talked to me to see how I was doing cause my gf had called him to see if there was anthing she could do, and he said in his 30 years he had never once seen a 3 month restraining order, they had always been 2 years.

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Heh. After reading all this shit, I think your just another one of them pussy whooped boys. I don't know you so I maybe wrong.

If I were you, and this situation came up, I would live my day doing my own things and carry on until the restraining order is up. When its up, I'd talk to her again. We'd date. Go out, hangout, do whatever. But i'd still be doing whatever I'm doing. Being devoted to one woman, doesn't mean your entire world revolves around her. Seeing as your pretty worked up about the restraining order, your world does revolve around her.

Investing 2 years in her doesn't mean that you should keep going with an investment. If it gets sour, toss it. Time length is pointless with intangible objects. But, if you do plan to stick with her, don't marry her until your at least 23-24 like others said. Times change. If you or her plan to go to college, that can change you two as well.

Restraining orders are nothing. In the asian community, ever hear of forced marriages? For head over heels people, this kinda shit happens alot. I was in this kinda situation 3 years ago, when I was 18, with this chick I was dating for about 2 years. I took her home after a movie, so it was around 10pm she got home., I was forced to go into their house and have a "talk" with her rents. Given a choice of marriage, or leaving it, and I said no and left. Looking back, I'm happy that I didn't take it.

Love comes and goes, its fickle. I wouldn't bust my ass for a woman unless she truly loves me. And that ain't gonna happen unless she takes the final step and marries me. Why? Because the stress that can happen during the dating stages aren't really necessary in life. Be precautious. Live it, love it, but don't submit to it unless your ass spends 1k+ on a stupid little ring to put on her finger, then giving her your checking account to buy everything else she wants.

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Your past "investment" in her is a sunk cost, you are never getting that back no matter what. You can take that and toss it out the window. If you know the relationship won't work, it is best to bail right away instead of putting more time into it. You don't think this is the case with you, but I agree it does sound like you are pretty whipped.

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I'm not really whipped, but more of committed. I don't know it's hard to explain, I've been in the position where I was with a different girl every week getting laid. Then I got into this situation, and I felt strong for her, and it felt good to have someone you know cared about you and not your penis, someone you can depend on and lean on when you needed it. So I may be whipped a little bit, but ahh IDK haha.

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I like to call those the glory days. You'll miss them, trust me :)

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I just thought I'd update you guys, even though ypu guys prolly don't care. Me and my girl made it through, and her parents actually lightened up and let go, We've hung out the past 4 days and its been amazing.

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Sweet deal dude. My girl dumped me. Screw dem hoes!

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Glad things worked out for you.....You cant really listen to many people. I got some great advice from my mom when I was in a terrible relationship

"I can give you all the advice you want to hear, you wont listen to me, you can only listen to your heart and learn for yourself before you acutally know what you need"

And After I went through what I did....I look back and realize shes right..

Best of luck to you!
Sarah

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Any babies on the way? :sex022: :love031:

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ahahah I hope the hell not, but I guess that is a possiblity ;-)

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I give it a week, maybe two, before you get another restraining order hahah!

Have her get a mitsustyle account!

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hahaha if that happens you'll see me on the news for murdering her parents and taking out a few cops with me. I was thinking that at first, but her parents seem really cool towards me again, and the told her they don't want to keep me out of her life, so idk it's fucked up haha. I'll tell her too tommorow for sure.

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edit... bah

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What would I do in you situation?



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Sorry couldnt help my self.
seriously though, step back and look at the situation. why would all these people be telling you to take your relationship slower if they thought it (getting married) was a good idea?

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I still refer to my original post!!